We all long for that perfect home balance of modern technology and easy to maintain products but do you find your love for antiques and vintage style can seem too hazardous to indulge in when you have sticky fingered, ball kicking, nail varnish wearing little darlings?!
The big question is – how can you invest in antiques that are childproof in order for you to make the style of family home you crave? Well, I have been buying, selling and adding antiques and vintage pieces of furniture and accessories to my home for years and I haven’t stopped since having my two daughters, in fact, I think I have embraced it all the more.
Here are my top tips on buying antiques that will survive family life and still give your home the character and beauty you desire.
1 – Remember, antiques may be old but they are not always delicate. There is a reason they have lasted for possibly hundreds of years and that is because they are well built, crafted from strong materials and made to last. Make sure the item you are interested in still seems strong and sturdy and you can be sure it will survive family life
2 – Antiques make great storage solutions. Consider investing in antique and vintage trunks as storage solutions for toys and games. Once everything is packed away you are left with a beautiful piece of furniture to enjoy. These are also great heirloom pieces for your children to treasure as they get older.
3 – Treat the item with the correct protection like beeswax or varnish (or both for the best solution of all!)
4 – Don’t be scared to invest in those more delicate items such as mirrors, just make sure they are safely and securely attached to a wall or shelf and out of the reach of little hands.
5 – Finally, buying antiques is also eco-friendly. You are helping to teach your children that not everything has to be shiny and new.
Golf is a fantastic game to get into from a young age. While it’s generally viewed as a sport for the retired – it is a great way to keep active in your old age after all – there are plenty of benefits for taking up golfing at every age! Only problem is, though, that taking up golfing for the first time can be a bit daunting. After all, there’s so much equipment you’ll need to start up that you probably don’t know where to begin and nobody wants to look like they don’t know what they’re doing!
Well, don’t worry, we’ve got you covered. Here are some great tips for getting yourself acquainted with the golf course and how not to stick out like a sore thumb on the green.
Dress the Part Golfing used to be a sport for the elites and while it has certainly toned itself down a lot more you will find that if you turn up to the golf club in the wrong clothes you and your Bermuda shorts will be given your marching orders. Most golf clubs will enforce a strict dress code so it’s good sense to dress in golf-suitable clothing in general to get the most out of your game.
A polo shirt, a pair of golf slacks and a quality pair of golf shoes – Ecco’s should do the trick – will be enough for you to pass the rigorous fashion tests of the golf clubs. Giving you much more time to dedicate to actually becoming good at the sport.
Get Professional Help It may sound dramatic, but honestly, if you’re anxious about making a fool of yourself when you hit the ball in completely the wrong direction then why not have a look at what local golfing instructors charge near you? Plenty of these will provide courses for beginners so you can get a helping start into the sport and not have to break any bad habits you may pick up by trying to train yourself to play.
If you’re a bit short on cash, then you could always ask a seasoned friend to help you out? Every time you play yourself a game you will get a little better so don’t be disheartened if you’re absolutely rubbish the first time you pick up your club – just keep working at it!
Shop Around for the Right Green You may want to play in the golf course that’s closest to your home, and that’s fine, but we’d recommend getting a lay of the land before you commit to a membership at a specific course. Plenty of clubs offer a one-day access pass that lets you play on the green for the whole day while taking in some facilities like a driving range – use this as your opportunity to do a bit of scouting and ask yourself ‘can I see myself playing here?’
There are plenty of factors to take in, such as course difficulty, the facilities, the scenery and the general atmosphere at the club. Treat it as if you’re looking for your home away from home and you can’t go wrong!
Are you good with kids? Do you think you’re so good with kids that you could look after them full-time? Or have you spent your whole life working in a nursery and are looking for a new challenge? Well, have you ever considered starting up your own nursery?
It may sound like a big step up, but if you’ve got a bit of business sense you can turn a dream of owning your own nursery and working with kids all day into a profitable business that sets children up for a good start in life.
These days, nursery does not just provide childcare, they are so much more than that. Your nursery should be giving children a helpful start in their development by encouraging education and social skills at a young age, but don’t push it too hard – lots of children learn through play and that’s what you should strive to push forward.
Here is some of the best advice we can give you if you’re giving some serious thought to opening your own nursery.
Find the Right Location Just like looking for a home to buy, you know what they say the most important factor is: location, location, location. Your location needs to be easy to get to, while still cheap enough so you’re not blowing most of your money on your overhead costs. Another huge factor is the size of your building will dictate the number of children you can take in your care – a health and safety risk assessment will need to be made as well as insurance for the property.
Properly Train Yourself (and your staff) Make sure that you and your staff have all the correct qualifications to ensure they are certified to do their jobs – NVQ’s in childcare, properly CRB checked and a knowledge of paediatric first aid in order to be prepared for every eventuality. Another point to be made here is that there is no better way to ensure a successful business than surrounding yourself with staff who are both passionate and knowledgeable about what they do. Enlist the best for the job and it will pay dividends to your nursery as parents will be more than happy to take their children there.
What Goes on Your ‘Syllabus’ Okay, so you probably won’t have to deal with Ofsted breathing over your shoulder as they ruthlessly scan your syllabus for weak links – but you should still be putting ample attention into what you’re teaching them. As per the guidelines we linked to previously, you should be putting time into teaching your children: personal development (which includes language, creativity and education) and physical development. These are loosely detailed so there is a lot of wiggle room here.
Captain of Manners Grant Harrold shared his tips for an impeccably behaved Easter, so we thought we’d post them…
1. Easter gifts: When visiting friends and family, always take a gift over the Easter weekend, but it doesn’t need to be a chocolate egg; why not take a small posy of tulips or some daffodils, or even a scented candle or perhaps think outside the box and give something you have made! Don’t give gifts that might be not appropriate, a chocolate egg is one thing – a live bunny rabbit is another!
2. Easter dining: When planning your Easter meals, always consider your guest dietary requirements, as you don’t want to serve a shell fish soup to someone allergic to shell fish or lamb to a vegetarian. If you are organising an Easter drinks party, make sure you have plenty of canapés and nibbles but lets remember guests, we don’t double dip in anything!
3. Easter Goodwill: Show goodwill to others. Organise an Easter egg hunt for the children, invite the family to yours for Easter, even if it is like the gathering of NATO, stay strong! Allow the children to help organise the events or perhaps get them to lay and decorate the table, no matter how dangerous this idea may sound. Let’s remember, do not play with your host’s eggs, or risk your life by helping yourself to the children’s chocolate.
4. Easter Alcohol: As always make sure you drink responsibly. Don’t risk drinking too much as this can be an unpleasant experience for you and others around you. Do remember to behave with grace and decorum, no licking fingers after eating a canapé, as we always use a napkin! Keep your glass in your left hand so that you can freely shake hands with new introductions.
5. Easter dresscodes: When invited for a meal or just for Easter drinks, please check the dresscode as we don’t want to turn up at cousin Alfred’s black tie dinner in something that resembles a caveman outfit. With respect ladies, no matter how tempting it is to wear a bunny outfit, you don’t want to give other guests the idea that they have entered the home of Hugh Hefner.
6. Easter manners: Never forget our please and thank you’s and show politeness to others. This is not just an Easter rule but something we should consider all year. Always remember, a warm smile and a sweet thank you goes a long way. Also when visiting others be helpful and do what you can to assist but do not be offended if they don’t want help.
7. Easter Services: Please remember when spending time with others this Easter, they may not be religious or have the same beliefs, therefore respect this and don’t be offended if they don’t wish to attend the Sunday church service with you. You could always make a plan for them to go on an Easter walk with the other guests but always plan ahead.
8. Gifts/thank you’s: Don’t leave thank you letters for longer than two weeks. Write the letter with care and put feeling into it. You’re not writing your weekly shopping list or your will, therefore make sure it has feeling and take time to write them. Don’t forget we start the letter with a thank you, then cover the highlights of your experience with the recipient and then you finish with the thank you!
9. Easter decorating the house: A lot of people these days enjoy decorating their homes for Easter, however lets not carried away, keep this simple and straight forward, perhaps a few tulips or if possible daffodils, around the home with the odd chicken but not a live one please.
10. Post Easter: When Easter is over, we thankfully have the summer to look forward to, therefore it will be time to get the BBQ out, buy the sun lotion and get the sunglasses back out. Its a great time to start planning your summer activities as well as the holidays so perhaps consider a few garden parties or summer drink receptions?
Getting young children into their beds and staying there can challenge parents at the best of times, let alone the night before Christmas. From leaving a carrot for the reindeer, to late night carol singing, there are lots of good reasons that bedtime routines fall into disarray on Christmas Eve.
There is plenty of evidence that regular exercise can help you fall asleep faster and stay asleep through the night. One Australian study found that every hour a child spends inactive adds three minutes to the time taken to nod off. Take a break from Christmas movies and head to the park to help expend excess energy in good time before bed.
2. Stick to bedtime routines and rituals
A consistent bedtime routine, or a set of specific ‘rituals’ before lights out, will signal that it’s time to sleep. If you’re staying away from home, find ways to recreate parts of the routine, even if they are happening later than usual. Preparing for bed in the same order each night (such as bath, brushing teeth, stories, goodnight hug), will help with readiness for sleep, wherever you are. Even a few days of a consistent schedule should help your child settle in a new location. Bringing familiar bedding, toys and books will help them to relax and feel secure away from home.
3. Act before your child gets overtired
Young children are often reluctant to admit that they’re tired – even more so when the alternative to bed is playing with shiny new toys. Look for signs of sleepiness before your child starts to be overtired, which is often the driver for ‘hyper’ behaviour. Try to start the bedtime routine at a consistent time. If they really don’t feel tired, they can play quietly in their bed or crib with the lights low. If you notice that your child is often overtired at night, experiment by shifting the whole bedtime routine forwards by 15-30 minutes.
4. Give plenty of notice
Give plenty of notice when bedtime is coming up, and then stick to what you’ve said: “In 10 minutes the cartoon will end and it’ll be bath time, and then we’ll have time for two books.” A timer which rings when playtime runs out could be a useful ‘independent’ signal that it’s time for bed. If your child refuses to stay in bed, try to avoid giving extra attention for bad behavior. Be as neutral and uninteresting as you can as you return your child to bed, even if you have to do this a few times. Consistency is key – even at Christmas – to help the whole family sleep well.
5. And if all else fails…
With a house full of guests, your child may understandably feel as though they are missing out on all the excitement by going up to bed. If you’ve followed the tips above and still have a stubborn and weary young one, hanging onto the banisters in slumber-protest: the suggestion that Father Christmas only leaves presents for children who are asleep might just be enough incentive to encourage lights out. At least that’s what the elves told me.
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Britain’s leading floorcare brand Vax shared their top ten tips for giving one’s home a Bank Holiday spruce up before the invasion of guests.
Add a fresh fragrance
While the garden is naturally fragranced with the scent of perfumed flowers or – perhaps more likely – wet grass, the smell indoors is all up to you. How do you bring the fresh smells of summer into your house? General cleanliness will improve the smell, but as a quick fix add some scented vacuum granules into the dirt bin before vacuum cleaning and they will release a pleasant fragrance as you go. Two birds, one stone!
Much as we love them, our favourite bundles of fur – big or small – can create chaos in the home and nothing turns the stomach quite like pet mess. Vacuuming can help get rid of their hair – be sure to pay special attention to the areas that your pets love i.e. their beds, sofas, rugs. Some vacuums come with a special tool for removing pet hair that makes the job easy. Go over your carpets with a vacuum before washing them and they will be even cleaner and fresher, especially if you use a specialist ‘Pet’ Solution to tackle any nasty smells. Don’t forget to give their bowls a clean too.
Make carpets like new
Carpet has a huge impact on the overall appearance of the home. Use an extraction washer like the Vax Dual Power Pro Advance and as well as giving your carpets a thorough, all-over wash, you can get at any tough marks and stains with the Pre-treatment Wand. Powerful extraction means you can do this just a day or so before the party and yours carpets will be dry again before the guests arrive and look like new!
Whether you’re entertaining inside or outside, it’s likely friends and family will want soft clean surfaces to sit on. Vax Carpet Washers come with an upholstery tool so you can adapt it to clean sofas, curtains, chairs and more. If you’ve left the cushions on your patio furniture outside in the garden for a while, or there have been some spills on your indoor furniture, this is even more important.
Clean high, clean low, clean in between
The areas at eye-level are the ones your friends are most likely to see but dust can still congregate beneath furniture and up on high shelves. This can cause discomfort to guests who suffer from asthma and dust allergies, so try to focus attention on the less obvious places too. Cordless vacuum cleaners and handhelds are a lifesaver for hard-to-reach zones so getting up high and down low needn’t hurt your back.
Restroom is the best room
If the home is our castle, the bathroom is our throne room. A mess in here is the biggest faux-pas. Your guests should feel comfortable whatever room they are in and it’s likely at some point they will all need to visit this one! Showers, taps and bath tubs will all be sparkling if you use a steam cleaner . From the mirrors, to the windows, to the sinks, to the shower door, steam can help you clean your bathroom and helps eliminate germs as you go!
Pressure wash your garden to perfection
Grime, moss and dirt are unsightly guests at any garden party, but show up uninvited from time to time regardless. The good news is blasting it away with a pressure washer is as satisfying as it is fun (think giant water pistol for cleaning inanimate objects)., You can clean the BBQ, garden furniture, fences, patios, the shed, cars and bikes. Sure you don’t need all of these for your party, but you might just get carried away…
Food preparation areas should be spotless
Maybe you’re a host who prefers finger-foods, or perhaps you’re planning on throwing a three course dinner party. Either way your kitchens and serving areas will need to be spick and span! Clean all the surfaces – even the ones you won’t be using like the cooker, as you will still want it to appear clean. Empty the bins and leave something with a light fragrance in these areas beforehand – like a reed diffuser – to make them inviting.
Have an emergency ‘toolkit’ to hand
Where fun is to be had, spills and accidents are always a possibility. Of course you don’t want to spend the whole occasion cleaning- up . Keep it simple and stress free, make sure you have the right tools for the job.. Keep an emergency ‘toolkit’ to hand a clean sponge, lint roller, dust pan and brush, stain remover, rubber gloves,If required, whip these out, swiftly deal with the mess and you’re done. Back to the party!
10 Mess prevention ahead of time
It’s one thing cleaning up messes after the event but prevention is even better than cure. When it comes to the carpets and upholstery you can help prevent stains from ever happening in the first place! After cleaning, spray some Vax Carpet Guard in the high traffic and problem areas and it will help protect against stains! That means you can spread your hard work even further.
And there you have it – one squeaky clean home ready for your guests to admire. You’ll soon be throwing parties every weekend just to show it off!
If plonking the kids in front of Mister Maker is as close to art appreciation as you’ve gotten this Summer, check out the fab list that Arts Council England has compiled to celebrate their 70th year – all activities listed are affordable and fun, suitable for families and will banish boredom faster than you can shake a paintbrush.
Ideas include making a sculpture from your lunch or making a playlist for your loved one, taking a selfie in the style of the Mona Lisa or ballet dancing to ‘Thriller’…
See the full list of activities here www.artscouncil.org.uk/70 – you’re encouraged to used the hashtag #70things to celebrate your creativity…
OK, we have no shame – we’ve all been there, right? You’ve had to give your child a particularly ‘enthusiastic’ botty wipe and the offending brown (or green) matter ended up all over your hands. You’ve scrubbed with antibacterial soap, rubbed on some gel maybe… You can still smell it…
Fear not, here’s a great little #MummyHack:
SM writer shares:“to get rid of the poo smell just rub a slice of lemon over the offending area – super quick and it works on vomit odour or after chopping garlic and onions too …”
Just don’t use the lemon from your G&T… 😉
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